By Ngaire Jehle-Caitcheon, MA, BSc
Sally says, "Looking back, I can understand why I let Albert
run our lives when we went to Zurich. I felt helpless, so I left
everything up to him, but it was a mistake. He didn't handle our
finances well and even messed up things with his family."
Getting married or moving in with a partner is to enter a state of constant
negotiation; who takes out the rubbish, how much should be spent on
books or wine, and whether having a manicure is an essential expenditure.